It quite often happens to everyone. Sort of syndrome, I would say. I am talking about getting married, right after the eyes blink. Yet I believe, having second thoughts about getting married is normal, but if the doubts continue, listen to that inner voice. It's better to hear what the innermost depth is saying in the silent. The voice is so much heardable for those will to. It is better to postpone or cancel a wedding than get married to the wrong person or for the wrong reasons. I think that is the worst choice of nothing.
It is important that you listen to your gut if you are having doubts about getting married. Your gut may be telling you something. A 2001 test based on an analysis of hormone levels could give a good indication of which couples are doomed to have failed marriages. For sure, finding Miss or Mr. Right is not always an easy thing to do. Once you think you've found the right person, you may have doubts. Having doubts about who you are marrying is not only normal, having doubts is healthy. Sometimes love just isn't enough to ensure the success of a marriage. I have never experienced this. The thing is that you can lower your odds for divorce by being selective in who you marry. Get rid of this!
Sometimes people measure the success of career as the step for marriage plan. This would be possible of having thought that marriage gets its possibility to decrease ambition of personal success.What about you?